Online Dating Safety For Over 70s

Online dating can be safer than meeting a stranger at a dance, because you can chat for as long as you like before deciding to meet. A bit of common sense goes a long way. Here are our tips for staying safe, online and off.

Staying Safe Online

• Trust your gut. If something does not feel right, you owe nobody an explanation. Stop replying, or use the Ignore button.
• Be honest in your profile and expect the same back. It is hard to pass for 65 when you walk in at 75.
• Check your photos do not show your house, your car registration or other family members.
• Keep your home address, phone number and bank details to yourself until you truly know someone.
• Never send money, vouchers or bank details to someone you have met online, no matter how sad the story.
• Do not let anyone push you into sharing more photos or information than you are comfortable with.
• Be wary of anyone who declares undying love before you have even met. Real feelings take time.

Meeting In Person

When you are ready to meet, a little planning lets you relax and enjoy yourself:

• Meet somewhere public and busy, such as a hotel lounge, a cafe or a restaurant, for the first few dates.
• Tell a friend or family member who you are meeting, where and when, and what time you expect to be home.
• Make your own way there and back, and do not accept a lift home on a first date.
• Bring your mobile, fully charged, and agree a code word with a friend in case you want an excuse to leave.
• Go easy on the drink so you keep a clear head, and never leave your glass unattended.
• If you ever feel unsafe, leave, ask staff for help, or call 999 or 112 in an emergency.

Your date is probably every bit as nervous as you are, so be kind, take it slowly and enjoy the craic.

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